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Make Contact With Your Ex After A Break Up

If you’re trying to get your ex back you probably already know that making contact with them isn’t easy. People often contact their ex in the wrong way and make the situation worse. You need to be subtle in your initial approach to them. To begin with give them space and leave it a few weeks before contacting them.

This will give time for any animosity in the relationship to pass over. The best way to make the original contact with them would either be a simple email or text message. People often miss or don’t read emails so I think a text message would be better. Most people check their phone much more often that their emails and this is why a text message is better.

Keep the message simple, just ask them how they are. If they reply then just take things as they come and when you feel the time’s right, ask them to meet as friends. If they don’t respond to your message then wait a day or two before sending another. If you send too many messages you will look needy and this isn’t attractive.

When some people don’t get a response within the first hour they lose the plot and start sending more messages. Once your ex finds the one solitary message from you on their phone it’s enough for them to realize that you want to speak to them. Lots of messages will tell them that you’re desperate.

If after a week you’ve sent a few message and your ex still hasn’t answered you need to make a phone call. This should be your last shot at trying to speak with your ex. If you don’t get hold of them and they don’t call back then you should take the hint that they’re avoiding you and move on gracefully. there’s no point in putting yourself through the pain of continually contacting your ex, it would be better to just accept that it’s over.

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